well, it will be a good test to see how much he wants to work on things. I have had my daughter overnight for the past 4 Sat. ex said that this Sat he would take her. I made plans to go to this new fitness center opening up in town with a girlfriend. Well, I told him I would take her to get her new glasses and that I would bring her home for supper. Well, I was back and he wasn't (this always happens) no note nothing. So I told her to pack her stuff she is staying with me. She was disappointed and as we were leaving the phone rang and it was the ex. Sorry he wasn't there, at his brothers helping him said he wouldn't be home until 9-10 p.m. wondered if I had plans I said yes but that it was with my girlfriend and I will cancel. he told me he owes me one, I told him its my daughter she is always first with me, you don't owe me anyting. Daughter and I had a blast and at 10 p.m. there was a knock on my door, the ex. he looked so tired and said that he was sorry. We are back to our old ways--never being around. Then on Sunday daughter and I baked cookies for are new neighbors and went to go met them. Very nice people and daughter might get a babysitting job as well. Then daughter didn't want to go to dads--he is always sleeping she told me. Except for living under the same roof, we are back to our old problems.