"Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice, shame on you".
Doesn't that go the other way around?
Very odd that your w would do that and think she wouldn't get caught. Reminds me of that Shaggy song "It wasn't me". She is one confused woman. She is clearly upset with potential other women in your life but can't keep herself from another man.
My assessment
1.your w still has strong feelings for you 2. Your w has no self control and needs serious psychological help 3. You (Jon) still need to work on you.
So take a step back for a day or two... I am curios what others will advise.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)