I think that if he truly wants you in his life and it's genuine, you'll be able to tell by the way he talks to you, looks at you and the body language may be a bit different. Just keep in mind, that it takes a while for all of this to come together, so you may have some touch and gos for a while w/this. He may come closer for a bit and then flit away again for a bit. Eventually he begins to remain close for longer periods of time. Observe his body language because that will tell you more about him than anything else.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
