The email system can be accessed at home as well, just needs the password. My W used to have all the passwords near the computer, so I presume that hasn't changed. I have also felt that a lot of my texts were not seen by the W, but could have been seen by the friend who then deleted them. Yes, mindreading.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.