What made you love your H and end up marrying him?
One sentence you say how OM is so great, next H negatives. Next you should give OM up.
Hate to tell you dear, but if you haven't noticed; this is called divorcebusting, this does not mean we bust up M's.
We are here to support you in trying to rebuild a M. Not give you permission to have an OM. the final decision is yours. But it sounds to me like you are asking all of us for permission to carry on with OM. Just my 2 cents.
Yep you are MLCer.
I wish you joy and happiness.
But I'm here to help people rebuild their M. I don't think I can help you. Maybe someone can help you here to build a R with your OM. Not my cup a tea, since I was on the end where my H cheated on me, I can not "feel" for you.
So I hope as I said you can find some happiness, even if it is short-lived.
