Ambivalent, Unless I am interpreting his email to you, everything he said is nothing but excuses and not anything that states exactly what the issues are w/the marriage. Budgets can be created and adhered to.
It will be interesting what he identifies as the issues. Because from where I'm sitting, he going to continue to have budget issues no matter where he's at. We all have them, especially in this day and age.
He's just rambling along using the mlc stinking thinking.
BTW, he's in the same area where my xh lives. I wonder if they've met? He use to like to bowl as well.
Hang in there. Okay? No matter what he says, this is his journey and his issues to clean up. We are here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.