Job, it is just like you were writing about my H. It is interesting that after months of separation and no contact, he came to pick up his childhood and pre-marriage photo albums. It was in April. At the same time our mutual friends were hearing some stories from him about his parent’s divorce. You could be right on target here with the thoughts that they try to resolve their issues with the parents even when they are not alive.

Ambivalent, have you seen the movie “The Secret”? If not, I would recommend watching it. It is about positive thinking. I think it would benefit you very much at this time. I agree with job, don’t assume that the e-mail will be negative. Try to think that there will be something good in it. You could be surprised.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state