Is there any way you can tell him you are not ready for that yet?Maybe buy some time and tell him all the things you have going on right now and tell him you want to wait until after the holidays. I don't know if his empathy chip is broken, like my H's is, but maybe worth a shot?
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
