Wow, that was great insight/advice. Both of us should have thought that d was not an option, oh well, learned that lesson the hard way. The right thing do to is to work it out, she is the father of my child and I did vow to love him before God. I guess I will have to see if he has changed as well. If two people do not make eachother happy then even if there is a child involved that should not get back together. Love is a verb: I got my own apartment, took care of him when he broke his heel, made medical appts for him , love is an attitude; sending cards, doing little things, believe me having an affair is so not worth it. Love is a promise for richer, poorer, etc. I was up front and honest for years, never hid anythng, even though it hurt him, it should have been a wake up call instead of get out. If you love a person, when they tell the truth weather it hurts or not, you should try and work it out.
I had to leave his house to pick up my prescription and he was like oh, your blood pressure meds, thats all your on. I just said I had to p.u. my meds and left. When married he hated tht I was on Paxil. I didn't dare tell him that I am on Wellbutrin--that's what I had to p.u., I will wait until we see the MC. Then he made a joke about credit cards, I forgot exactly how we were talking about it, he wanted to know how my credit cards were. well I said fine, once when I asked him to take me back he said he wouldn't because then he would inherit my cc debt. I fell as though he wants to make sure all the stuff that he didn't like before in now all taken care of. this is going to be a very, very long journey and how knows maybe in the end we will both end up with other people.
