Fy, I know sometimes it is hard, when you are in the sitch day in and day out, to see the small stuff.

But, clearly your w isnt going anywhere. And the fact that you can spend a nice day together, do stuff together, is great.

I do think she is processing stuff. The things that are happening with her friends are not lost on her.

Unfortunately, the way this works is that her reconnection to you as a h is last.

I so wish she would go and talk to someone, as she really needs to resolve some stuff.

You know, I am one of your biggest fans. I want you to know that I understand how frustrating and hard this is for you.

You have been amazing throughout this, and no one faults you for feeling discouraged from time to time.

You will know when you are done. I dont think you are there yet.

But as I've said, in your particular situation, doing something a little different when you are ready, will not be a bad thing.