Originally Posted By: DTM
I can see how trying to help someone and not knowing the entire story is difficult.

It's not all about me, believe it or not.


You responded exactly as predicted. People's personalities shine through a little in how they write and respond to others in their posts. If you interact with your w the same way you interact with the people posting on your thread, then THAT aspect of your personality is something you need to work on.

Your w is the half of the equation that isn't here on this board. We cannot help your w; we can only help you.

So it IS all about YOU

Originally Posted By: DTM
she feels guilty, isn't happy and will give it until December to see if she gets any feelings back.


So what are you doing to become an irresistible badass h in the next 6 weeks? I guarantee she will not get her feelings back if you keep doing what you are doing now. You need to change your thinking right away.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)