My post was related to the one about housecleaning not advice on your meeting with H.

Try to have a good time with no expectations. This is your life now, enjoy it.

What will you say if things start moving to R stuff?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss