But, he made it very clear when he was here that he considers me, if nothing more, his best friend. I see a friend in pain and while I agree that I should not and cannot (at this point in time) enable his behavior, I think it would do a lot more harm than good, as far as our R goes, to just let him drown.
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On the path to repairing our relationship, why should I expect him to respect my boundaries if I don't show any effort to respect his or to try to fulfill his needs?
I think you are very wise
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
