wife hardens heart-5

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I planned to take my 2 girls to ride the light rail since I thought it will be fun. I am very sure I can manage without a problem. W found out and made a big deal out of this, citing rain and lots of people. She wanted to come along and I relented and said ok. I waited for her and she took OM along. I was pissed.

I took the train and he followed like a dog he is. Finally, I told him to get a drink some where and just leave me and my girls alone. He said it was a public place and he's free to go wherever he likes and tried to accuse me of being careless with the girls. No case there. He's just aping W.

Finally, W tried to stop us from having a go at each other. And like a dog he obliged. I wasn't going to start a fight and he should know his place. My time my girls. He went away. We took the train home later.

The kids wanted their mom so W went with us to my car. As we drove home, D4 blurted out OM's name with daddy appended. That's a red flag. I told them don't say that and there's only 1 daddy. W immediately say not to blame her and tried to make it sound like god father in my native language. Nice try but I'm not buying.

At home after the girls had their meal, i told W it was inappropriate to allow the girls to call OM daddy. She saw nothing wrong and tried to guilt me. Again, she brings up my mom's fault and of course mine as well. Validated her but she was angry. I backed off and asked for hugs before I leave which D3 obliged but not D4. I kept on asking but she refuses. W said they knew who loved them more. I told her not use the kids this way. As I leave broken hearted because my D4 didn't want any hugs, D4 came running to me and called out for me. I held her so tight and told her not to hurt me anymore and there's only 1 papa. Never to forget that. W came out and just drive the knive in by saying if I had cared earlier we wouldn't end up like this. I ignored her. I only wanted a hug from my kids.

I called OM later. I wanted to tell him under no circumstances that he's allowed to use my kids in any way. Called but no reply. Like a good dog, he must have obliged W. Sent him a warning text and told him the level of disrespect he's shown.

Obviously, they are hiding this affair from everyone. This will never remain hidden. The truth will come out. Good luck to them.

And yes we are divorced.