we both agreed that it will be a hard road. I think he wants to get back because he feels strongly about the family unit and that his daughter needs both parents. Like he said before, if d was 18 it would be a different story. right now for three years, he bascially had her on Fri night and sometimes on Sat night, he has physical custody and tells me I can see her anytime I want. He told me if he wanted to date, he couldn't because he is always so busy. I am going to make a suggestion that we do like most divorced couoples and he gets her one weekend meaning Fri night, all day sat, and bring her home on Sunday sometime and next week my turn. Now I feel that yeah, it would be very easy to get back together; we know eachothers families, know what eachother likes; have a daughter, heck we know our form of birth control and we have seen eachother naked. If he has weekends to himself maybe he will date, or find that yeah, I want to repair this marriage not for my daughter but for me because I still love this woman. He wants me to say that we will never go through what we went through again. I told the truth and I lost my family, I am now a little standoffish about the truth, so I can't guarantee anything, I don't think anyone can.
