You are correct, I think sometimes its too easy to get carried away with situation & want everything to happen too quickly. Major pointer on validating! Thats probably what has got me this far & really must try to ensure its forever, not just to try & get her back.
update wise: Much higher frequency of txts & calls, all friendly. Met the girl last night (it would have been first night meet for a drink & chat) to be open & honest with her about the fact that WAW was having a rethink, I wanted to tell her face to face rather than phone call, really heavy, we hadnt even been on a date yet she seems to have pinned a future on us! She was very upset but better now than a few months down the line. I felt absolutely gutted too as really did not want to upset her, I didnt think she was in so deep when all we had done is share a few txts & calls. Another rollercoaster.
Thanks Kev
Me 50 W 46 Stepson 16 Together 6yr, Married 3yr Known each other 20yr ILYBNILWY Jul 13 Found out about affair Jul 13 Left Marital home Jul 13