For instance... would you ever let your D starve to death? No? Why? Can you guarantee that? Yes? Why?
Because you commit to letting nothing that horrendous happen to your D. You make a commitment. That is what your H is asking you for. A commitment. He's not asking you to guarantee that you will never be tempted. But he's asking you to come to him and have a conversation or put the brakes on or whatever it takes not to take him and your entire family on this hellacious journey again...
Why would you not want to commit to that?
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
