Hoping to still move forward, huge setback

[cbtdad]

Well I hate to be posting something like this today, but its just dragging me down.
Today is our 6th anniversary. Would never know it from wifes standpoint.
I got her a card and few things for her horse, nothing extravagant.
I got nothing from her. Not a thing. Not even a happy anniversary.
We had a long talk last night on the way to airport to pick her up dad.
I was straight up honest with her as i could be. I told her that this is not what I want in a marriage. I feel no emotions or feelings from her what so ever. My wife is afraid to be alone. I even told her that's why I believe we are back together. She didn't respond to any of this by the way. I've told her for 2
Months now what is important to me and none of it is changing.
Things that are important to me are physical touch(hand holding, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc), wear her wedding rings, and make her facebook status married to me on facebook. I know the last one may seem stupid, but it would show me she's happy to be married to me. I've explained why these things are important and nothing has changed. I also brought my fears about being around OM and all she says is there are "hypothetical situations"
She doesn't realize I'm trying to boundaries in place and my fear of an affair reigniting.
My biggest problem is she shows no emotion towards me what so ever. I truly believe that she is in this because she is afraid to be alone.
I have even told her that I believe we are only in this situation now because she found out OM was a real POS and it wasnt because she really wanted to be in this marriage.
I am planning to bring this all up in MC on Tuesday. If I don't see any changes in a week I am leaving. I refuse to be in a loveless marriage where i am being treated like a roommate.