Solution Based Therapy - you'll need to search the main page for background but basically therapists fall into 2 categories 1 - traditional or Freudian - they think everything we do is based on incidents in our childhood - they delve into our dark past to figure out why we do what we do - the problem is that it takes a LONG time and when your marriage is in trouble you usually dont have a lot of time.
2- solution based therapy - a relatively new therapy theory (a couple of early 20th century adopters but most didnt start until late 80's early 90's) - they focus on what do you want now, what can you do to affect that change, and what can you do to measure it. The benefit of this is relatively quick results in even the worst situations.
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Bill.
"you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant
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