Me 1 year on

[TryingToDo180]

You need to use DB as your surname. Have you tried that?

[hotwheelsaust]

Doesn't matter NQ. Have you tried a different email as well, something like gmail. So you start off a completely new person joining.

[Not Quitting]

Yep, didn't work. Trying different variations on NQ to see if I can get one of them to work. Not quitting yet - as my screen name says.

[Not Quitting]

Set up a brand new email address before starting. Maybe NQ is too short?

[hotwheelsaust]

possibly is too short a name. I used a different email to set up, then later changed my email to a gmail one. I didn't want all my messages coming to the work email.

[Not Quitting]

I don't blame you - I wouldn't want messages on my work email either.

I'll keep trying - I'm sure I'll find a combination that will work.

[hotwheelsaust]

Well got another email from the W just minutes ago.
"Hi hotwheelsaust,

Solicitor has sent you a letter agreeing to your proposal and you should receive that by post this week. A binding financial agreement is also being prepared and that will be sent to you as soon as possible also. I see you don't want to take the jet-ski and accessories and that is fine. Before you leave for Christmas holidays let me know when I can expect to receive them."

I got a hi this time. Also note how she expects me to take the jet ski to her. Also she didn't sign off. At least on the positive it should be finalised by moving time.

[hotwheelsaust]

Questions about above email. Since she wrote before I leave for Christmas holidays, she seems to have no idea I am transferring.
So do I tell her now? Or should I wait for the solicitor paperwork so no changes are done.
Should I tell her she needs to pick up the jet ski? Or should I deliver it to her?
Should I simply ignore her email?
Should I ask her not to email me anymore with regards to the splitting of assets, and say just go through the solicitor?

[TryingToDo180]

IMHO I think you should go with your gut feeling on this one, do you tell her or not?
I wouldn't answer her email until you hear from the solicitor. I think it is strange that she should be telling you all this stuff ahead from the solicitor.
Reading her email, she's expecting the jet ski to be delivered to hers, not necessarily by yourself. I don't really know what to suggest, personally I would ask her to come and collect it.

[Fartiltre]

48 at the least!! - In fact I would consider waiting for the paperwork to arrive.

Should I simply ignore her email?

If you feel like answering her something then you might just state that you will look into this when the papers has arrived.

Hi W
Got your mail! I will look into this and get back to you when I have gone over the paperwork.
HWA

Should I tell her she needs to pick up the jet ski? Or should I deliver it to her?

Where is this jetski located right now?
I sounds like she wants you to handle it all – I wouldn’t! Don’t stand in her way but don’t help her either!

So do I tell her now? Or should I wait for the solicitor paperwork so no changes are done.

If it comes as a natural to tell her about the transfer and you feel like it - then do it! You will be home in the city at Christmas – right? You transfer when the holidays start.

Should I ask her not to email me anymore with regards to the splitting of assets, and say just go through the solicitor?

I wouldn’t – just do what you are doing! And don’t make any agreement without the L.
You could come out as a jerk saying something like that.

Well, just my 2c

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