Wow ... it is so tough to not reach out and try to ease the way for someone you love versus the tough love that make them realize that these are the consequences of the path they have chosen.

I just don't want him to come down on me for telling the bank manager why I needed to move money or listening to what the employees have said about him, etc.

Such a fine line to walk with a spouse in MCL.


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013