I suppose it is mindreading, but in a different way. When we started to mindread, we focused on what should we do, how do we fix this etc. Now mindreading is more of a thought, without worrying how to go about fixing/repairing or even dealing with it. I will continue to do what I was planning to do, whether her journey has changed or not. To me that is the difference now. Glad you managed in your state to do a FB account.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.