Thanks 25yr- I appreciate your insights. I have decided not to respond to her texts and phone calls related to her trip to brazil. Unless she lets me take him to my parents for thanks giving . She asked me this morning to pick him as an exchange for signing papers. I said weather is cold and she son has cold. So i said just keep him with you this weekend as its not my weekend. She sent an email to my parents trying to get a YES from me on those travel papers. She is adament on not sending my son to my parents for thanks giving. She actually sent my son for a week when he was 9 ths old when she had some work. I was with my son the while week. She went to a bank this morning as the papers need notary and my permission to take my son to brazil. I am fine with travel but only when it is fine for her send my son to my parents.
This noon she finally decides to let my son go. But she was expecting that I would sign her papers. I did not want to do what she wanted. She keeps treating me like her bottle boy. I hate that when she controls me says, do that , this time, this is how ...


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
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