Anita,

Welcome to my world. It is not an enviable place to be. My LF like your OM wants us to be together. My ex called me this morning. Her store was robbed yesterday of $1300. She called for morale support and I wasn't there for her. Your right, I wish someone could make up our minds for us. I can speak from hindsight. I wish now I would not have got LF involved. I know you care for both and that is a tough spot to be in. If I could turn the clock back one month and know then what I know now, I would concentrate fully on ex.