Some of things you mention sound like consequences for your H's actions. I hear you enabling him.
I understand how you want to make things more comfortable for him in the office but, at the same time, it sounds like you have been left to deal with a situation He created.
I'd pray and think carefully about what is truly your responsibility to handle and what's not. What do you NEED to handle to keep your side of the street clean and keep the business running smoothly. What are things your H needs to face up to?
Just my two cents.
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