hi cindy, I hope you are right. Being with OM, I was introduced to the wonderful world of toys. I know ex would not go for that, I've tried that road when we were married. Maybe the counselor can give us ideas. But ex is and was raised very, very old world, old fashioned. I need alot of physical attention which I know I may have to compromise. But I find myself going through my mind all the things I want to change about him, the house. I never used to do this before, I don't know why I am like this now, maybe that is why I had so much too drank at the super bowl party.
