Sweet 2chiq- Iam so happy to read your update. I have felt similar feelings as you on this journey especially in regard to the kids. So it makes me happy to read that your family is doing well and that you are continuing your own journey of introspection and reflection.

I have had a similar experience of H's friends wives who 'took sides' and have not contacted me since the sitch began. I recently came to terms with it. I heard the same phrase ''sh'!t happens' ( witch I do not like) and realised they were probably not mean when they 'dumped' me but simply didn't know how to cope. And they were not my real friends anyway. They are H's friends and think they are gig hi the support he needs. Its fine. We know who are friends are and they are there for us.

Just don't let it phase you too much. You know more than I do it's not a reflection on you.

Your story inspires me. Your honesty and struggles inspire me. You are true to yourself. Your kids are lucky to have you.

Keep going 2chiq.

Xxx

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home