TTD180, I haven't told the W I am leaving, but the boys now know. Also being a small country town, teachers gossip, so it could have been mentioned. F, definitely no money or transfering of registration will be done without the legal documents. Yes, it is mindreading, that is why I am not worrying about anything. Just seemed weird that the last letter came from the solicitor and now she has sent two emails without the solicitor. Both emails were all about the asset split.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
No nothing to do about it. Not worrying about it. Just one of those things that go through your mind while running. Simply she has written or said more to me in those two emails, than she has in the last year.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
I wonder how long it'll be before you get a letter from her solicitors. It could be an empty threat like it was with my H.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I simply wonder if it is her feeling that she has to rush things now. Like she wants to get everything over while I am still around. Maybe she wonders that I have moved on, and doesn't like that idea I can leave without telling her. I haven't told her I am going to the home to live, she doesn't know when the tenants are moving out. She doesn't know anything, neither do the family, so maybe that has her thinking more. For me though, it is more things I think about rather than mindread about. I am still doing what I need to do, whatever she may be thinking or wanting to do. If she has the solicitor issue papers then great, it will be so much easier for me to have the house in my name before going back to the city.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
As much as you say you aren't, I think you're mind reading We all do it, but sometimes we need to be reminded that we are doing it. Maybe she has been busy and she's just got round to it, there are a dozen reasons why she is asking you now. I've just created a new FB account now, I'm called Ttd DB if you want to add me
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I suppose it is mindreading, but in a different way. When we started to mindread, we focused on what should we do, how do we fix this etc. Now mindreading is more of a thought, without worrying how to go about fixing/repairing or even dealing with it. I will continue to do what I was planning to do, whether her journey has changed or not. To me that is the difference now. Glad you managed in your state to do a FB account.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
lol yes I managed it I'm not that bad really I think I'm sobering up, lol. I just wonder what they're going to think of my black glittery nails in Church tomorrow, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Glad you had a good night. You're gonna feel it in the morning by the sounds of it. But it's worth it if you had a good time isn't it
I am trying to set up FB but I keep getting message that I must use my real name. Anyone have suggestions how to get past that. I tried NQ DB and Notquitting DB - both rejected.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
We all do it, but sometimes we need to be reminded that we are doing it. Maybe she has been busy and she's just got round to it, there are a dozen reasons why she is asking you now. I've just created a new FB account now, I'm called Ttd DB if you want to add me