thanks for reading my post rayanne. OM called me crying that he wants to marry me someday, has been sober for 2 weeks now. I know he is not good in the long run, but I wish I could mix together the two of them--hey the perfect man!! The OM grandmother called me wanting to know if her grandson a.k.a. OM was behaving and being sober. She was telling me how good I am for him. I love the oM family, they took me right in. The ex's family never excepted me, yeah I know who cares what the family thinks, but within about 4 days I have had both men telling me stuff that I want to hear and then grandma telling me how good I am for her grandson. I know its a fact of life and someone is going to get hurt and I hate that!