thanks hope, that was really good advice to go back and read what I have posted, probably would have never thought of that myself! I know I am being tempted. Even more so, OM showed up Sat night looking very, very tired, he works third shift and a 2nd job on the weekends. His furance died and he had no heat--it was like 20 degrees out this weekend. I knew he wasn't lying, the furnance was going when I lived there. He begged me for him to stay over and get some sleep. I didn't want to turn him away, he has bailed me out more than once, so I let him in and he fell asleep on the counch, then next day I had way to much too drink and ended up at his house watching the super bowl. I know it was wrong.
