hey cat, thanks. It is hard to know when to show care and not. Part of my problems with this is that during my depressive phase I was neutral and unconcerned, so I feel like he needs to see the happier me, even when responding to texts and things. It's so confusing. I want to create an environment where he feels safe enough to feel good about being here. You're advice is helpful.

He went out last night and still isn't home, it's almost 9:30. For the first time last night, I didn't care that he wasn't coming home and I actually slept really good. Probably becuz I was exhausted from the day before, too. But now when I see his S wake up in the morning and not even question where his dad is...that hurts. I want to smack H silly.

We shall see what the day holds. Still no mention if he is moving out or not.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.