Ugh Jfun, I am so very sorry for all of this ugliness. She is seeing your very positive changes and thinks it is all for the evil side of it because that is where she lives, in the evil.
This will be extremely difficult but you have to stay positive and ignore her venom even more now.
I am so sorry, I feel your pain. I hope you were able to get some sleep.
My H still isn't home from last night, I didn't expect him to be.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.