Hi Anita,

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Now I find myself comparing the two guys. Right now I feel no physical attraction for my ex, he just doesn't do it for me in that departmentbut I still love him, he is the father of my child, practing Catholic, doesn't smoke or drink, hard worker--





I have followed your thread before. Now that your H is moving back to you, Satan is rearing its ugly head again. Stop the comparison. You need to pray like you never prayed before. You need to work on no contact with OM and all his empty promises. It is the only way your M will have a chance. Satan has got you to doubt what it is you wanted when you first came to the BB. Were'nt you the one who said "it takes a village to raise a child, but the WAW throws the whole village out." Please read what you have posted in the very beginning so you will remember your goals. Please do not blow it this time. You really need to have no contact, phone, email, in person with OM. As far as no physical attraction to your H, you are letting lust for OM live in your mind again.

Keep focusing on what you set out to do and don't be scared. Just go slowly and be tender to your H. OK...

Love,
Hope