WAS left, focusing on me, DB'ing like an amateur

[KdogGS]

WAS can flip your world upside down if you let them.

So, don't let them. How you feel about something can be uncontrollable bur how you react to situations is entirely in your control.

I have a mantra of sorts i developed... it was patterned after things taught to me here...

Class. Honor. Dignity.

I have found that if I apply these three attributes to a situation that it usually turns out okay.

Thanks MrCas, I have started asking myself- is what I'm about to do going to get me closer or further from my goal. I'm glad I can come here and bounce ideas off of you all, because in my head I thought it was a good idea. I'm glad you all keep me grounded. I probably would have pushed the divorce through already through my actions on my own. Thanks for helping me help myself.

I'll keep those three tips in mind regarding your mantra. I can see how they will all help regardless of the outcome.