WAS left, focusing on me, DB'ing like an amateur

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gr8 gave you good advice on the coupon booklet.

It's hard not to do things for them.
Not knowing BD was coming, I bought a necklace over the summer for my H, to give him this upcoming Christmas. I'm just going to have to wear it my self I guess..... lol .... It's going to be hard to not contact especially around the holidays...but this is what they wanted. To be left alone...our reaching out, giving gifts, is what WE want.

With her still adding things to the Mint.com.... I've noticed my H still does things that he learned from me, that he thinks were positive and is implementing them in his new life. So maybe she's grown to appreciate it or finds tracking her money useful. WAS's sure are interesting

Hope you have a great weekend!

Thanks for the insight Mimi, I really did want to do a friendly thing for her. But now I can see how else it might be viewed and considered pursuing. I will continue my self improvement and not initiate contact and wait to hear from her lawyer on the next step of the divorce.

Hope you have a good weekend too!