It's on the pile of books I have to read F. So many books that I need a holiday to read them all. You are so right, until we hit rock bottom, we don't start climbing up.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.