Just finished reading N.U.T.S. What I find so sad is where I am now could have been repaired, stopped or not even an issue, if I had read this book and others before it was too late. All I can do now is be that better person/man. I can only control me, I cannot control anyone else.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.