We do indeed have to just believe them for what they say and hope that they really are working on themselves. It sounds like we are working on ourselves in the meantime, too!
I'm so thankful that we don't have kids. I don't even know how I would be able to properly care for them at this time. I can barely look after myself right now.
Thank you for the book recommendation too, I will have to check that out. I definitely could use anything positive/ hopeful at the moment.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
