I have my leather outfit on, feather duster in hand....I think someone needs a good spanking!
Seriously, Cadet is so right on with his comment. We know what to do when they bring up R talks. Think of yourself as a quasi therapist. You know the guys that make all the money to nod and say uh-huh, I see. They ask the patient a question now and then to keep them talking. They are validating more than giving advice.
I don't always believe people with credentials anyway. They give their opinion and have theories. The Dbing guidelines and the results that I've seen here have proven to me that the process works.
Don't make me come over there.....LOL
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
