DTM. Everyone on here that posts on your thread is trying to help you. Some may come across as harsh and others will not, but everyone is trying to help YOU.

We may make observations about you from your posts that are off base because we don't know all the details. Other times however, the observations will be right on target and it will take you some time to realize how true the observations are.

We all have difficulty seeing our own flaws. You don't want to pick fights with people who are trying to help you. Instead be patient and courteous and you may learn something about yourself.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)