It's hard not to do things for them. Not knowing BD was coming, I bought a necklace over the summer for my H, to give him this upcoming Christmas. I'm just going to have to wear it my self I guess..... lol .... It's going to be hard to not contact especially around the holidays...but this is what they wanted. To be left alone...our reaching out, giving gifts, is what WE want.
With her still adding things to the Mint.com.... I've noticed my H still does things that he learned from me, that he thinks were positive and is implementing them in his new life. So maybe she's grown to appreciate it or finds tracking her money useful. WAS's sure are interesting
Hope you have a great weekend!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
