No I am not in IC, I was considering it, but then H canceled our independent insurance coverage b/c he's now covered by insurance w/ his new job....and I have none. But I think I'm much better now than I was a few months ago, I really "see" myself in ways I did not before. Maybe in the future something will come about and I'll have the opportunity.
Thanks again for your kind words
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope