Smart, funny, good-looking, great cook, consistent, knows her and her likes/dislikes...hmmm!! I hope she does some thinking.
I know my H told me that he looked for better options outside the M and didn't find any so came back home. My friends and family thought that to be so condescending. I don't. It's just semantics. I think they never really wanted to leave home at all and just make excuses why nothing is ever just right for them "out there".
One girl that I was afraid would be just perfect for my H -- they "clicked", she was very pretty, extremely fit with plastic surgery, perfect hair, looking for a man, etc. and my H said she wore inappropriate shoes at times. Like a pretty dress but with tennis shoes or whatever. Really! I didn't know such a small thing would be so important to a guy!
It underscored my feeling that our spouses really aren't looking for someone to replace us. They just don't even know what they are looking for and they are unhappy with us ... just not unhappy enough to get rid of us!!!!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
