Just got a message from my h that he is thinking of selling the his car. That would leave him with his truck which is fine BUT the car is in both of our names and I will have to sign off on it when/if he sells it. I know that if I won't agree to sign he will do whatever it will take to get my signature. I fear that once he gets the money out of it he will blow it on a vacation or whatever the ow wants to blow it on. (He said he was going to put it in an acct to use in the future on his current house.)

He had the car appraised as he was thinking about selling it just before the ow moved here. It's worth approx. $20K. I'm not in a major panic and maybe I'm over reacting but I can't help but wonder what he's up to.

He mumbled something about her bringing her old soccer mom van up here to use.

Do I just let him do as he wishes, make him share the proceeds with me or ????

Thanks

Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama