CC, I'm sorry you are feeling a bit under the weather. It could be that time of year or the weather, but I do think stress plays a huge role in how you feel. Try to get some much needed rest, lots of vitamins and plenty of water.
Well, at least he called to tell you about the interview. Many of them don't share much in the way of what's going on in their lives. You did the right thing in lettering him know that you are there if he needs to talk. No pressure in that sentence.
No matter what you say or do, it will not wake him up. Yeah, I use to think about having some brain surgery done on my xh...but it wouldn't have worked. LOL!
Take care of yourself and get some much needed rest.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
