2old, I agree. While the vets have said many things that might be true. I still believe this is our area to let off steam, even if it is repeated so many times. What isn't working (for anyone) is the letting off steam, being told what to change/do, and then doing exactly the same thing again without change. That is frustrating to all. That is not to say you are doing this. We are here to help......each other....full stop.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.