Thanks to all for the input on the gift.

@AS - the whole joke about the dating happened AFTER W said she wanted to try. W also found out about the women after after the R talk.

Again, it was not a wise choice to crack that joke, and it won't happen again. I think I was still in a bit of shock over the whole thing and maybe a bit giddy. I really didn't think W would react at all, let alone that strongly. Maybe it's the EA - where people that have crossed the line into any type of affair perhaps fear it more strongly in themselves?

Regardless, now is definitely not the time for games, and certainly not the time to cause any more fear or instability when we already have plenty of that!