I think you are right about thinking for a long time. Even deeper this week since the `news'that it may not be over. Through my GAL I met a girl who I am very attracted to, in fact we had a night out scheduled tomorrow which obviously will be cancelled if all goes well tonight.
I won't demand that `in love with you' line again, I maybe nade a mistake saying it earlier, but I;ll take the odd mistake if it all works out.
OM has to be off the scene completely, no contact at all, I have mentioned total openess between us, including phones & facebook, I will bring that up again if the conversation leads that way. Whenever I was away with work we used to speak at 9pm every night, the only time she is away is if on a night out with her friend, she only started to stay out just before the affair became apparent.
Well....1 hour to go, I'll update asap
Thanks All
Me 50 W 46 Stepson 16 Together 6yr, Married 3yr Known each other 20yr ILYBNILWY Jul 13 Found out about affair Jul 13 Left Marital home Jul 13