Thanks Jon / jp,

More valuable comments.

I think you are right about thinking for a long time. Even deeper this week since the `news'that it may not be over. Through my GAL I met a girl who I am very attracted to, in fact we had a night out scheduled tomorrow which obviously will be cancelled if all goes well tonight.

I won't demand that `in love with you' line again, I maybe nade a mistake saying it earlier, but I;ll take the odd mistake if it all works out.

OM has to be off the scene completely, no contact at all, I have mentioned total openess between us, including phones & facebook, I will bring that up again if the conversation leads that way. Whenever I was away with work we used to speak at 9pm every night, the only time she is away is if on a night out with her friend, she only started to stay out just before the affair became apparent.

Well....1 hour to go, I'll update asap

Thanks All


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13