Thanks V, I am still a bit flabbergasted by it all. We had a text conversation a few days ago about a date this weekend and something had changed so the time or something (can't remember the specifics) was going to be different, he said "if you're still on for that" to which I replied "you know I'm not easy to get rid of" to which he replied "I'm glad you aren't easy to get rid of."

It's little things like this that tell me there's a lot of story we haven't even opened up yet and we may never need to.

I always thought I would want to know everything about the time we were apart, but I've found that's not important for me.

I think I need to lock this thread and move to Piecing.

Good thing I don't have a lot of baggage to drag over there. ;0

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss