Ok, we'll keep the pity parties - just as long as we keep them to a minimum LOL.
Of course he doesn't know how much he's upset you. Mine looks at me like I'm completely off my rocker when he triggers the tears, and mine forgets complete conversations as well.
Why not be just about ready to go out when he picks up your son, a "too busy getting ready and can't chat" sort of thing. Make sure the mail is ready to be handed over as well - don't give him a reason to loiter.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks